The Meaning of Methodism for Cornish Immigrants to America; the Meaning of Intolerance to Me

Before they left the shores of England, John Albert Berriman Wills (J.A.B. Wills) and Annie Reed were married in Truro, Cornwall, England. The date was  August 14th, 1866 and the church was St. George’s Anglican.  John Albert was 23 years old, Annie was probably 30 years old.  Although both John and Annie came from strong Methodist families, marriages were often required to be performed with Anglican rites and Methodists were required by law to support the Anglican church.

Marriage Certificate of John Albert Berriman Wills and Annie Reed, August 14, 1866

Witnesses were:

Amy Wills, a younger sister of J.A.B. Wills

Emma Jane Reed, a younger sister of Annie Reed

William Marben, a possible friend of J.A.B. Wills

 

Maxwell Adams, writing in 2005 described Lelant Methodists as reactionary –  opposed to social reform and to Roman Catholicism.  We know John Albert Berriman Wills (J.A.B. Wills) from Lelant and Annie Reed from Gwennap were raised as staunch Methodists.  Like their founder John Wesley, Methodists were suspicious of Catholicism viewing it as a threat to their choice and sovereignty.  The roots go back to the Tudor and Stuart reigns and the 1534 English Act of Supremacy declaring the monarch to be the head of the English church.  Allegiance to the Roman pope was heresy and a sure path to hell.  The Gordon Riots of 1780 in London were violent anti-Catholic reactions to 1778 laws giving Catholics some limited rights .  Cornwall’s working class, miners and boatmen,  were swept up in the greater current of anti-Catholicism prevalent in England from the late 18th century through the 19th century.  The anti-Catholic sentiment that ran through England was also present in 18th and 19th century America.  Though root causes may have differed, both were manifested in violent riots, often against Irish Catholics.  I am not certain how this social trend played out in Cornwall but there was a definite bias against Catholics that J.A.B. Wills carried in his soul across the Atlantic and into his new life in North America where he found many likeminded Americans.  It was only America’s Civil War that temporarily suppressed the Anti-Catholic movement in the United States.  It easily resurfaced afterwards.

1894
fter “A Picture Without Words” Library of Congress
https://www.loc.gov/item/2012645166/

The anti-Catholic prejudice J.A.B. Wills (1843-1919) brought with him would ultimately destroy his son John Albert Wills (1873-1937) and their father-son relationship.  It also impacted the oldest son, William Henry Wills (1869-1931) and his family.  The brothers, raised as Methodists, fell in love and married Franco-American women who were Roman Catholics.  For this, John Albert Berriman Wills became estranged from both sons eventually wrote them out of his last will and testament.  He removed his sons and their Catholic families out of his life.   In many ways, writing this story is filling that void and re-establishing the relationships his descendants could have had with him had  he been able to leave his religious prejudices behind in the Cornwall he left.

Tolerance was not an accepted behavior in 1900.  Disinheriting your children was.

The greater lesson for his descendants is that we living today, would be so much more richer and our lives fuller if we left our prejudices behind whether they are religious, cultural, ethnic, social or racial.  Cultivating tolerance isn’t an easy thing to do.  We are born into a family and quickly grow into the society that surrounds us with all its inherent institutional biases.  Loving our family but learning to allow members to flow across its boundaries and continue to be accepted will aid our own growth and the growth of America.

That is why I appreciate the illustration below with Uncle Sam is trying to bring two men together. In this case, the issue of school funding for Catholic schools was the divide.

“Darn Ye Both” Library of Congress
https://www.loc.gov/resource/ppmsca.29053/

America’s history is not something I tend to brag about – the dark side of the American past is always present and should never be forgotten.  However, this illustration gives hope that Americans will eventually come together with tolerance and acceptance making us a better people and a better nation.

The story of John and Libby, my Grandparents

The story of John and Libby, my Grandparents

On August 18th, 1903, John A. Wills, a bachelor from a devout Methodist family married  Marie Elisabeth “Libby” Bissonnette, a young woman from a Franco-American and Roman Catholic family in St Joseph’s  Catholic Church, Cohoes, New York, USA.

The bride and groom were first generation Americans.  His parents were born in Cornwall, her parents were born in Quebec, Canada.  Though John  never converted to Catholicism,  to marry Libby he agreed to raise any child of the union as Roman Catholic.  He and Libby did so with one exception – his eldest son and namesake.

John A. Wills was disowned by his parents for the act of marrying a Catholic.  So too, was his older brother, William Henry Wills, and for the same reason.  The painful splintering of father and sons ended in estrangement and personal tragedy.  Eventually, John A. Wills descended into chronic alcoholism and died of acute alcoholic intoxication. Libby was ravaged by thyroid disease before the wide availability of thyroxine hormone.  The disease eventually killed her.

Personal tragedy has its way of seeping through generations.  For John and Libby Wills, their tragedy did not end  with their deaths.  It carried into the next generation with poverty, poor access to education and opportunity, shame, alcoholic disease, poverty and estrangement.

When I was quite young, I listened to my mother and her sister, Etta, argue about their parents the way many adult children do.  It wasn’t until I was older that I began thinking about why and how the Wills family’s story reflected part of America at the beginning of the twentieth century.  My great grandparents were working class immigrants; their children were first generation Americans.  Some immigrants had great success stories, others did not.  Some first generation Americans had great success, others did not.  Why the differences? What made success and what made tragedy?

Here is the hypothesis: my grandfather, John A Wills (1873-1937),  descended into alcoholic disease, poverty, and despair due to personal reasons – shame, weakness and the estrangement of his birth family.  Also playing a part were social economic causes, sharp class distinctions, and  discrimination.  However, religious intolerance, obstinacy in religious beliefs and lack of family support may have had a bigger role.  Then, when it looked liked things couldn’t get worse, the final breaking point, The Great Depression came bearing down upon the family.

As I write, in the third decade of the  twenty first century,  Americans are still debating race, class, social injustice, sexism, identity and religious intolerance of one kind or another.   Religious institutions were the power players that created the community norms of the 19th and early 20th century.   Through their teachings and customs, Catholic and Protestant institutions instilled children and adults parishioners with religious bias, fear of persons with different religious beliefs and religious intolerance.  It remains present with us today, most prominently in racism, sexism and LGBT discrimination.

I  hope to provide background about social issues in 19th & 20 century America such as religious bigotry and intolerance in America, social class and struggles of the immigrant working class, effects of the Great Depression, and cultural adaptation that will help put Wills Family History in context.  Additionally, I would like to explore family issues, disinheritance, health and nutrition, death and disease, personal disintegration as well as adaptation, rebirth and resiliency that family members used to coped or not cope.  It was never clear how the Wills family got through the decade (1929-1939).  The Great Depression provided the final blow; the parents died, daughters married and sons joined the CCCs, the US Army and Marines.  With one exception, Elizabeth Frances (1913-1937), the children survived.

Graves and Religious Intolerance

The two photos below capture the essence of separation and longing after death.  The husband was Protestant and the wife Catholic and they could not be buried together according to church law in Europe.

Graf met de handjes, Roermond 01
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Graf met de handjes, Roermond 02Wiki Commons https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/User:Dqfn13

The brick wall between them is obvious to anyone looking on.  The outstretch arms joining the two headstones is clear.  No words are needed.  Now, please take a look at this more modest gravestone of a husband and wife below.

headstone cemetery Wills

This is the gravestone of John A. Wills, husband, Elizabeth “Libby” Wills, his wife and their daughter Elizabeth Wills.  They were buried in 1936 and 1937 in St. Joseph’s Catholic Cemetery in Waterford, New York.  At that time, their marriage was called a “Mixed Marriage” and the Catholic pastor forbade a Protestant burial in the Catholic cemetery as was the custom.  Apparently, he relented – slightly.  If the children would pay for a brickwall to be built around their father, the pastor would allow John to be near Libby.  So during the height of the Great Depression when it was a struggle just to afford food, rent and utilities, the eight remaining Wills children paid up to build the brickwall.

You cannot see it.  It was constructed beneath the topsoil and separates the coffins of John and Libby.  It may even completely wall off John from all the other burials in St. Joseph’s.

This was state of religious tolerance in the 19th and early 20th century and difficult for anyone born in USA after 1980 to imagine.

Jack and Libby

Couple Portrait of John and Libby
Couple Portrait
John Albert Wills and Marie Elizabeth Bissonnette Wills

John “Jack’ Albert Wills (John A. Wills) and Marie Elizabeth ‘Libby’ Bissonnette married on 26 August 1903.  My mother told me they ‘honeymooned’ in Key West, Florida where John wanted to remain and make a living by establishing a photography studio where he would take portraits like this one.   I have no evidence of that but there is a small piece written on the back of a card indicating they were in Charleston, South Carolina for a period of time.

In 1903, marriages between a Protestant and a Catholic were rare.  They were called ‘mixed marriages’ and strongly discouraged, banned by Catholic and Protestant churches and outright opposed by parents of the couple.

That was the case for John A. Wills.  His parents JAB Wills and Anne Reed, devout Methodists, opposed the union of their son and namesake with a Roman Catholic.

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